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When you think about the relationship between man and woman you can imagine the two magnificent palaces situated near each other. Each is surrounded by a moat, one large and one small wall. In one of the castle lived a king, while another resident queen. Typically, the king does not know what it really is a queen, because he knows it only from the stories of others. His contacts with the Queen is limited to written correspondence and oral communications by the messengers. However, once they agree to meet and see what the truth is the other person. For this purpose, they must come out of his castle and move safely into the unknown. They need to open your lock, then the gates in the larger wall. The next step is to open the gates of the wall and unleash a smaller bridge on the moat surrounding their property. Safe exit from his castle is of course with some danger, but they are convinced as to whether it is worth it chance. Once they do come together and realize that the stories and images of the messengers are not actually grow up to heels. They see it was worth the risk out of the castle as their own fall in love with each other.

When I meet a girl walking nothing about it you know. Everything you think about it is built solely on the basis of a number of questionable premises. There is no relationship between you. When you agree to each other and talking together your relationship starts to build and slowly begin to inquire of new things about myself. As in the metaphor of the king and queen, who conducted the correspondence with them, you also become aware of a certain "superficial" information. The problem is that most people can not enter the world of the other and thus build a "deep relationship". No matter whether they are with each month or two, or six years, their relationship is still at a metaphorical correspondence, because they are afraid to open and allow another person to enter his mental space. In other words, they build a barrier between them, on the one hand to protect them against injury, but as time preventing the development of a strong, satisfying relationship. If you want to possess the ability to pickup girls, or in other words, learn to build deep relationships with girls, you have to learn one fundamental skill: the ability to enter into the world of another human being. There is only one way to enter someone else's inner world, ie his personal space: the need to make this person has agreed to admit us there.
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