| How to enter the world of another person |
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| | To the girl let you into his inner world must be assured that your company is safe and that you are someone close to her. Not easy to make someone feel to us in this way, so it's worth you learned this skill now. How do you think how this can be achieved in an efficient and elegant manner? I'll tell you that the best way is to listen to the person. For most of his life we learn, and usually only speak only about what interests us. Notice how sometimes when you have a problem and meet up with friends who are also something to worry about, everyone wants to talk about your problem. Each of you every now and then change the subject, just to say something about their problems. Why is this happening? Because when we talk about its concerns, usually something someone can advise us, to express its opinion and in some way the whole situation better. Note that when you meet with someone who will be happy to hear you, you feel as if matters of which you spoke to wyklarowały. More importantly, however, is that this man is someone closer to you, the more trusted and valued. This is because he begins to share with you a part of your life. It enters into your personal area, which recognizes only a handful of people in the world - people who are probably those of a close. | | |